Thursday, May 17, 2012

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, BEKA!




Today is Beka's birthday!

So...from half a world away, we are all praying your day is filled with much love, joy and laughter with your friends and family, and that a bounty of the LORD'S blessings are poured out upon you, Beka!

Happy Birthday, mnyane!
And may Chiuta bless you with many, many more! 

Thursday, May 3, 2012

Just a Note...

Hi, everyone!

Because it's been a while since the last post, I thought I would let all of you know that Beka didn't get lost flying over the Atlantic Ocean on her way back to Malawi!  She safely arrived there and is settled back on the farm with Anna, Wongani, Chifu, and the others.

I have been receiving information from Beka as she is able to give it.  Having no electricity yet restricts the amount of time she is able to get onto her computer.  The last message I received from her, Beka was in an internet cafe in town.  Although I have some things to pass onto you, I sent some other questions for her to answer and fill in the gaps before I can put all of it together in a post.

I know you are probably anxious to hear about what's happening, but I'll have to wait a couple of weeks until Beka and Anna return from a trip to Chilolo, Anna's home village, where they will be harvesting the ground nuts they planted.  Because there is no electricity or cell phone service, I am hoping that when she is able to communicate again she will have lots of new pictures of the farm, Anna and the boys, and their harvest endeavors.

I have been thinking of doing a little more research on the political and socio-economical climate in Malawi, mainly because of some news a while back that Beka passed onto me.  Malawi's former President, Mutharika, died suddenly and there has been a change in leadership.  The new President is a woman and Beka is optimistic that there may be more hopeful times to come for the people of Malawi.  It will take me a few days to gather all the information, but I hope you will watch for the post.

So...hang in there and come back often!  There are exciting developments to reveal and I wouldn't want you to miss a thing!

In Christ,

Karen

Monday, April 23, 2012

Back Home

With a one-way ticket in her hand, on April 20th Beka boarded the plane that would take her on her long journey back to Malawi.  It is there that her heart belongs.  It is there that God's work needs finished.  And it is there that a little boy and her best friend awaited her long absence.  I am confident that the reunion was a joyous one.

Although our conversation at church during my two-week stay in Prosser lasted only a few seconds and we were unable to reconnect while I was there where other matters consumed my time, my thoughts were always on Beka, Wongani, and Anna.  Distance has a way of making us feel separated, but God has built a bridge between Malawi and where I am.  He has placed her permanently in my heart.  And He did so that I could keep her supporters who also love her aware of the progress that is being made.   I promise to be diligent here on the blog and pass onto you all that Beka sends my way.

Beka returns to the Malawi harvest season.  While Beka was gone, the crops were lovingly tended by Anna and others and are ready to gather for consumption.  Maize, sweet potatoes, ground nuts, cassava, and beans are ripe for the picking.  We pray that the harvest will be a bountiful one and will sustain them until the next growing season.

Beka also wrote me to say that the house has been wired for electricity and the connection fee has been paid!  Praise God!  Let's all pray that ESCOM, who has a reputation for making new customers wait for connection, will do so quickly. 

Before Beka left the United States, she was interviewed by Ross Courtney, a reporter with the Yakima Herald Republic newspaper.  The following link is the wonderful article he wrote.  But what moved me most was the photo taken of the elders from Mabton Grace Brethren Church praying over Beka.  Knowing that God is by her side, taking every step she takes, and leading her in the building of Wongani's Hope Toddler House comforts me beyond words.   He is a merciful and glorious God!


Please continue to visit as I try to keep you caught up on all the comings and goings in Malawi.  The past has proven to be an exciting one, not only for Beka and Anna, but also for us as we watch the LORD'S will unfold.  I am certain that the coming months will also leave us in awe of Him.

Until then, continue to pray for Beka's health, strength and safety for both her and Anna, and continued support to see Wongani's Hope become a reality.

In Christ's service,

Karen

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

"For where two or three have gathered together in My name...

...there am I among them."  ~ Matthew 18:20 - ESV


There is no greater proof of our LORD'S statement than when Christians gather together to unite in accomplishing His will.  When the invitation was sent out to attend a fundraiser on March 18th for Wongani's Hope at Indulgences Espresso & Delights, the evidence of this truth was made obvious to the attendees and also to those of us who were only able to watch from hundreds of miles away.


Because the Holy Spirit was present every step of the way, all that was needed to make this a successful gathering was provided through the Christ-filled generosity of its organizers.

There are so many people to thank and we apologize for not knowing all of you who came to support Beka.  But we hope the pictures that were taken (and that I slyly "borrowed" from Indulgence's Facebook page) show that you are being acknowledged and that without you, the fundraiser would not have been a success.  (Here's a tip on viewing the photos:  simply click anywhere on the photo and it will take you to a viewing page where they are more easily seen.)


So!  With no further ado, I would like to pass on Beka's "HUGE THANK YOU!" to everyone who made the evening surpass all of her expectations!  And especially for opening your hearts to Wongani's Hope and the work she and Anna are doing in Malawi.






First on Beka's list of thanks is Carrie Matteson, owner of Indulgences, and her staff for providing the location and what looks to be a fantastic buffet of food!  It doesn't look as though anyone went away hungry!















Poster boards were created to provide the guests with photos and information on the work Beka and Anna are doing in Malawi and some of the goals they are striving towards.


The event began with a viewing of the video that had been created to help Beka gain support for the project.  Next on her list is Bob Marshall with West Richland Rentals who graciously provided tables, a projector, and a laptop to make it possible.








Cale Moon, a local musician, provided the crowd with entertainment the entire night!  I'm guessing Country music?  :o)  (Click here to go to Cale's web page!)








I hope you won something, Connie!











A raffle was held and Beka would like to thank everyone who donated items to make it a success!  And a very special thank you to everyone who purchased tickets!








As I mentioned at the beginning of this post, none of this would have been possible without the faithfulness of our Savior Jesus Christ and Him drawing His children together in one place to fellowship with Him and to demonstrate their devotion to Him and His work.  At the close of the evening, He proved His love for Beka and Anna once again when the total funds collected were added up.

A whopping $3450 was donated by those who attended the event!

This humble servant was truly amazed at the outpouring of love you expressed to Beka.  I join her in giving you that "HUGE THANK YOU!" for all that you have done.  And I hope you will join me in continuing to pray that all the needs that arise will be met until, at last, Wongani's Hope Toddler House is built to serve and introduce Jesus Christ to the children of Malawi.

On a side note, I know there are many of you who have been wondering about Beka's health and the results of all of the tests she has had to endure since arriving back home.  I will let Beka tell you in her own words:

 From my latest MRI I learned that my brain is fine but the headaches are coming from a problem with my neck.  They are calling it degenerative disc disease and cervical spondylosis [click here to read about this disorder].  On top of that I also have a couple of bulging discs in my neck. Also, my neck is straight instead if curved which is adding to the pressure on the discs, ligaments, muscles, and nerves.   There us not much they can do, other than managing the pain.  They said that it should never cause paralysis which is good news! ;)  They have me on three different medications to hopefully take care of the pain and they are also considering giving me an Epidural injection in my neck right before I leave which should alleviate pain for up to 6 months.

As I told Beka, I personally like the sound of the epidural injection, rather than drugs that so often have the tendency towards addiction.  Please keep her in your prayers.  We often wonder why God allows certain burdens in our lives, but He has a reason for Beka's trials and I am certain beyond any doubt that they will bring Him the honor and glory He seeks through her and Anna's work.

Praise God for His constant presence in Beka's life and for the evidence He continues to give to us as we watch everything unfold.

In Christ,

Karen

Friday, March 16, 2012

News From the Front Lines!

By now, I am sure some of you are wondering what Beka has been up to.  There is a lot to tell and I apologize for the delay in getting it posted here on the blog.  And because so many exciting things have been happening, I have been just as anxious to get this post written.  Once I get all of the information gathered, it becomes a welcome challenge to put everything into perspective; getting timelines and stories right is the most important part of my job.  I want to make sure that every detail is correct and that nothing is left out.  So...with that!  Let's take a look at what life for Beka has been all about since her return to Benton City!


An Update On Beka's Health

When Beka returned to the United States, she was having some health issues that needed immediate attention.  However, I can thankfully report that the appointments with her oncologist received positive results!  Beka has now been cancer free for one year!  Praise God!

While in Malawi, however, an unexplained lump in the middle of her back had appeared, which caused her  pain and discomfort.  After visiting her oncologist, she was referred to a neurosurgeon who scheduled an MRI of her back and a DEXA scan to determine her bone density.  The tests revealed that she had healthy and strong bones, but at some point in the past she had suffered an injury to her back, resulting in four stress fractures to her spine.  As hard as Beka has been trying, she can't remember a time when the injury may have occurred.

The lump that had shown up was Beka's body's way of attempting to heal itself.  The problem is, it was doing a poor job of it.  The fractures had not healed correctly and calcium deposits had built up around the injury, thus causing the discomfort.  The good news is that the neurosurgeon didn't recommend surgery right away.  Instead, he prescribed physical therapy to see if that would ease the "tightness" she feels in her back.

Another problem Beka has been experiencing are severe, "constant and almost unbearable" headaches.   Nothing seemed to give her relief from the migraines which often prevented sleep and greatly influenced how she felt.  She was referred to a neurologist and another MRI on her brain and neck was performed to try and determine why these headaches are occurring.  Although Beka reports that the LORD has been merciful in easing them, please keep her lifted in prayer, asking for wisdom for the doctor and that what he finds will be easily resolved.  Beka's greatest desire is that she will soon be able to go back to Wongani and Anna and that nothing will prevent her from doing so or delaying her return.


Wongani's Hope Video and the Blog

As you know, back in February Steve and I completed the video we had been working on to assist Beka in gaining awareness for Wongani's Hope and traveled to Prosser to present it to her.  We invited MGB's Youth Pastor Caleb, Darlene Comstock, and others, including my brother, Roy Abshire from Omak, Washington, who was visiting my Mom, Marlene, to view it.  Caleb took one of the disks we had and made several copies for Beka to take with her to California where she was going to visit family the following week.

I was also able to create a "channel" on YouTube for the video and to date, it has been viewed 381 times, not including the number of times it has been seen here on the blog.  We encourage you to please continue to share it with all of your friends, family, and churches.  The more that watch it, the more support Beka and Anna may receive.

This blog also received its first international visitor the other day.  The traffic counter that's installed indicated that someone from Greece had dropped by.  I am praying they took the opportunity to watch the video and have shared it with others.  Even better, the traffic counter indicates that our visitors are reading the entire story!  It also displays the number of pages that are read each day, and the numbers have been encouraging.

God has given us tools to use and He is proving to us that they are affective when we use them!


A Casual Trip Turns Into Much More!



Back in February, Beka's Uncle Andy, his wife Julia, and their five girls, Claire, Hannah Rose, Rachel, Hannah Belle, and Sarah, had expressed their desire to see her and asked her to come down to southern California for a visit.  Naturally, funds were an issue, so they graciously provided her with a plane ticket so that she could visit them.  What she thought would be a relaxing week spending time catching up with family members she hadn't seen in a while turned out to be much more than expected.

Beka's Aunt Julia is a member of Moms In Prayer, a group of women affiliated with Moms In Touch International who serve the LORD by actively praying for their children and grandchildren, the schools they attend, and their teachers and administrators.

Moms In Prayer


On February 28th, Beka accompanied her aunt to Oak Valley Middle School in Poway, California where the group was providing soup for the teachers' lunch hour.  While there, Beka was introduced to Martin Reisert, one of her cousin's teachers from the previous year.  I'll let Beka tell you about this amazing encounter that I am certain was orchestrated by God, and Who made sure Beka was prepared for what He had planned:






Julia introduced me as her niece Beka, who lives in Africa.  Mr. Reisert asked if I would come and talk to his class and I agreed.  He wanted me to go with him immediately and I explained to him that the video I had to share was from a Christian perspective.  I told him that there were Bible verses, Christian music, and that it talked about God, but he said that it was okay.  So we showed the video and the sixth grade students asked me questions afterward.  They asked such great questions and really enjoyed the video.  I felt so happy to have the opportunity to talk with the students and share with them.

I haven't asked her how she happened to have the video with her.  She probably had a copy in her purse because you never know when it might come in handy!  But what occurred next is even more amazing:

After the video ended Mr. Reisert asked "which of you think that this is a worthy cause for a class fundraiser?" and everyone raised their hands.  It was such a wonderful surprise!!  I also had the opportunity to show the video and speak to two other classes--another one of Mr. Reisert's classes and a 7th grade class with a different teacher.

When Beka called me that night to tell me the wonderful news, I was absolutely thrilled and we spent a few moments praising God for making it possible.  But it was the next phone call I received from her a couple of days later that caused us to rejoice even more:

I went back two days later to thank the class for having me and to give them a painting from Malawi and they had a huge surprise for me.  They told me that they had already begun their fundraising efforts and then revealed to me that in two days they had already collected $1000!!!  Praise the Lord!!!  I don't even have words to express how thankful I am and how these young students (and Mr. Reisert) have touched my life.  I never cease to be amazed at how God works.  The students also all wrote me letters, many of which were so sweet and brought tears to my eyes.

By the next day or so, the kids had raised $1,400!  And at the end of the school week and conclusion of their fundraising which was a mere four days, a grand total of around $2,100 was collected by these great kids and their teachers!

Over the next couple of days, it began to dawn on me what had just happened and I was dumbfounded.  Not only was Beka able to give her presentation and received donations from the precious hands of children, it all took place in a PUBLIC school in California, of all places!  Beka had one more praise to add that even further confirms that God's hand directed every step she took and every word she had to offer.  Beka was able to do what very few people are given the chance to do in today's climate.  She was able to give her testimony in a classroom full of school children:

I have other exciting news to share with you too, but this is the most exciting story! I got to talk about how God has changed my life and about my faith in Him in a public school...how great is that?!!!

In answer to your question, Beka,  I think that's pretty great!  As I pondered the fact that these kids would go home and tell their parents what they had been able to witness and ask for money to donate to Wongani's Hope, it struck me that if the wrong parent heard it, trouble could come for Mr. Reisert, the other teacher, and the school.  I highly commend them for creatively providing a way for their students to be introduced to Beka and for bringing awareness to the kids of another little boy and his life half a world away.  I continue to praise God that He cleared the way for it to happen without reprisal and pray that the hearts of others were opened to receive Him through Beka's testimony and Mr. Reisert's boldness.

Thank you, Oak Valley Middle School!
Well done, Mr. Reisert!  Thank you for your faithfulness, and thank you for becoming a "follower" of this blog!

And a GREAT BIG THANK YOU to the other teacher (who I hope leaves a note to let us know who you are!) and the kids at Oak Valley Middle School!!  God bless you!!  You guys are the best!!  We hope you will come back often and keep current with what's going on with Beka and Wongani, watching how the money you collected is going to help build Wongani's Hope Toddler House.  I speak for Beka and all of us in saying that every penny you gathered means the world to us and to the children of Malawi!


More To Come!

Meeting the teachers and kids at Oak Valley Middle School wasn't the only opportunity Beka was given to talk about Malawi.  She also met with the local High School chapter of  Fellowship of Christian Athletes and gave her presentation.


Beka also was given the opportunity to meet and speak with a woman who was very familiar with the plight of the children in Malawi.  (Please forgive us for not having your name!  If you drop in, leave a note so we can acknowledge you.)

"GoGo Grandmothers" is an organization that serves and supports the "GoGo's," which means "grandmother" in Tumbuka and Chechewa, who are raising their grandchildren.  Because the AIDS virus is so predominant, it is reported that the number of orphaned children in Sub-Saharan Africa would reach 20 million by 2010.  The African culture is one that embraces kinship and when a child is left without a mother or father to raise them, they are passed down to the extended family.   In many cases, the AIDS virus has swept through the family unit, killing the younger and more capable aunts and uncles, and leaving the older grandmothers to raise them.



Beka reports that she had a wonderful time speaking to this woman about Malawi, discovering that she had been there and had the desire to come and visit Beka and Anna in the future.


As the week stretched on, Beka found herself being embraced and absorbed into the Christian community.  A prayer meeting was held to introduce her and present her requests before the LORD.

Great Uncle Don and Frosty, with their church Pastor, Greg Stephens





Towards the end of the week, Beka was able to reconnect with her Great Uncle Don and his wife, Frosty, who live in San Diego.  They  introduced her and the project to their church, The Father's House, and its Pastor, Greg Stephens.

Wongani's Hope Dessert Night










Beka's trip was topped off with a gathering at Andy's and Julia's beautiful home on the Sunday before her departure.   "Wongani's Hope Dessert Night" drew those who were interested in hearing about Beka's and Anna's work in Malawi.

 

This coming Saturday in Richland, Washington, Beka's friends and family have organized an event called "Dinner With Wongani and Benefit Concert".  All of the details, including the location, "Indulgences Espresso and Delights," and directions are included by clicking on the event link.  Steve and I are not able to make the trip this time, but I am hoping to enlist the help of others by taking lots of pictures to add to the next blog post.

With the help of our great and faithful God and her family, Beka has gained some very special new friends who have rightly earned a place in her heart.  The memories of the special moments she had with them will never be forgotten.  As we watch Beka work to gain support for Wongani's Hope, keep praying that God will continue to open doors for her.   On our end, we are hearing of the potential for great possibilities coming Beka's way, praying that those we have shared the project with, including those that you have presented the video to, will take it to others looking for a way to serve the LORD and offer their support.

I would like to personally thank Beka's Aunt Julia for providing us with the photos for this post.  They are absolutely wonderful and exactly what I was hoping for!  They portray so beautifully the hearts that are being prepared to assist Beka and Anna and the love of Christ that is being broadcast to the children of Malawi.  Please express our thanks and many blessings to the others in California who welcomed Beka with open arms.

Until next time, may God continue to bless those of you who have united with Him in building Wongani's Hope Toddler House, and may He bring more  workers to assist Beka and Anna -  for His honor and glory.

In Christ's Service,

Karen

 

Friday, February 24, 2012

Coming Soon To a Church Near You!

After six weeks of familiarizing myself and maneuvering my way through the Movie Maker program that is on my computer, frustration over mistakes I made, major disappointment accompanied by utter disbelief when I lost the entire video on my first attempt to save it as a permanent file, forcing me to recreate the entire thing in two days so I could get it to Beka...and a WHOLE lot of prayer...

...the story of Wongani's Hope is now on video!

My husband, Steve, also worked tirelessly to add 32 voice-overs to the project.  Needless to say, there were many re-takes to get it as close to perfect as we could with a microphone at the kitchen table instead of a sound studio.  As he read through the script I had created, he would often find himself shedding tears as emotions rushed over him, even though he knew the story as well as his own.  I would smile, say "cut," and we would give it another go.  Many prayers were uttered in the making of this video.  But even more amazing were the lessons we received from the LORD as we attempted to create it.  Patience and perseverance brought it to its completion.  God is, indeed, good - all of the time!

The problems didn't stop there, however.  We discovered more when it was finally burned onto a disc.  What we thought was a flawless recording proved to be completely dependent upon my computer's mood.  Although there were a couple of "digital blips" I kept trying to eliminate (regardless of the number of times I re-saved the file trying to do so, and that kept showing up in different locations), God finally gave us that flawless file.  But not until He decided it was time.

Last night, after two failed attempts to get it posted onto YouTube, my third attempt was successful!  The world can now watch Beka's and Anna's story in living color on YouTube and see the progress that has been made on building the toddler house.

Steven Spielberg we ain't, but we hope the video will tell their story in such a way that you get a better feel for what Beka and Anna are attempting to do in Malawi and the things they have accomplished to date.  It was created to help Beka gain recognition for their work and to offer to churches and organizations who may have the heart to become involved in her fund raising efforts.

Please take 17 minutes and 52 seconds to watch it.  After you do, we are hoping that you will share the video with others so that they, too, can see the amazing work the LORD is doing through these two wonderful women, and unite with us as we joyfully watch God's will completed through them.

Enjoy!  And please let us know how we did!

Friday, January 27, 2012

One Man's Junk Is Another Man's Treasure!

From left to right: Joey, Katy, Cole, Gracie, Mike, and Eli
 I thought I would begin sharing with everyone the things that are being done to help Beka raise funds for Wongani's Hope.  Each time I hear about one, I will try and post it here so you can join us in praising God for opening willing hearts.  And if you will send me a photo, I'll be sure to add it so everyone can meet the Wongani's Hope fan club.

This morning, I received an email from my niece, Katy, who is also a good friend of Beka's and is working hard at coming up with creative ways to help Beka raise funds for her mission.  She reports that another $100 was raised from an item she had advertised and sold for her other good friend, Andrea Waud, on Craigslist.

From left to right:  Hannah, Chris, Andrea, and Payton
Way to go, Katy and Andrea!

This is just one example of how we can help get Beka back to Malawi in a timely manner.  Katy and Andrea decided that those unused or unwanted items that were cluttering up their houses could be sold to raise critical funds for Wongani's Hope.  You know, we have all heard the old adage, "one man's junk is another man's treasure."  Well, they proved that there is always someone out there wanting what you no longer have a use for and they will actually pay you to take it off your hands!

I might add that there is also a bonus by advertising on Craigslist:  it's free!  Plus, Craigslist breaks their website down to individual cities, so you are actually advertising locally!  And if you need any help getting your item (or items) listed, I'm sure Katy would be more than happy to lend you a hand.

So, how about it?  Are you tripping over things in your house you wish were gone? Or is your garage in need of a good cleaning and reorganization, but you just can't get the hubby to do it?

Katy and  Andrea have the solution!  If your unused or outdated items have Beka's name on them, we hope you will consider doing what they have done and then gift the money to Beka.  By doing so, you will not only be getting rid of unwanted things.  You will be helping Beka reach her goal quicker and rejoice as we watch Wongani's Hope unfold and the fundraising thermometer climb to the top!

Thanks again, Katy and Andrea!!

(UPDATE!  By midnight, Katy reported another $125 worth of items sold!  Today (Saturday), Katy sold another item for $20, bringing the total sold in the last 24 hours to $245!  God is SO good!)


Wednesday, January 18, 2012

No Rest For the Weary!

"Let your work be shown to your servants,
   and your glorious power to their children.
Let the favor of the Lord our God be upon us,
   and establish the work of our hands upon us;
   yes, establish the work of our hands." Psalm 90:16-17
It has been a while since you have been updated on Beka's and Anna's progress, but it hasn't been from lack of interest.  Because I live 400 miles from Beka, and Beka is half a world away from Anna and they are only able to talk to each other once a week, communication between the three of us takes a while to reach my desk.  I have been as anxious as the rest of you to hear about any progress that is being made and have kept busy gathering as much information to pass onto you as I can.

Exciting things are happening for Beka and Anna.  As you know, Beka is back at home in Benton City where she is enjoying the time she has there to catch up with family and friends.  However, her thoughts are consumed with Malawi and the welfare of the people who are waiting for her to return.

While working part time, Beka has been busy searching for innovative ways to raise funds for the building of the toddler house.  A couple of weeks ago, she and her Mom, Valerie, traveled to Bremerton, Washington to give Beka's presentation to Summit Avenue Presbyterian Church.  They had created business cards with her contact information and a link to this blog and her Wongani's Hope Facebook page to hand out to interested donors.  Beka said that a lot of people showed interest by asking questions and that a love offering of $280 was given to her from families at the church.

Another creative tool they came up with is a form that includes the story borrowed from her Facebook page on how she and Anna got started.  At the bottom is a tear-off with information directing tax deductible donations to Mabton Grace Brethren Church and a choice of either a one-time donation or a commitment to monthly support.

On the 17th, Beka visited with the mission committee at Benton City Methodist Church to discuss fund raising ideas.  She indicates that they are very interested in establishing a community fund raiser to help pay for electricity at the farm and would also like to enlist the help of the schools there to see it happen.

Beka's friends are also showing tremendous support for the project.  One of them opened her heart and donated $400 towards its success.  Also, my niece, Katy Isley, continues to advertise items for sale on Craig's List, directing shoppers to this blog.

If you have read Beka's story, you know that she must have yearly check-ups with her doctor to insure that her cancer has not returned.  On the 25th, Beka has an appointment with her regular physician for a full physical and blood work-up.  Then on the 14th of February, she will meet with her dermatologist to make sure that there are no suspicious moles or spots that need attention.  We are all praying that both appointments will have positive results, eliminating any concern we have for Beka's health.

Now on to Anna!

On the December 31st, Anna, Chifu, and Wongani moved into the new house on the farm.  Beka reports that they are "very happy to be there" and have settled right in to their new lives, but because they are in the middle of the growing season, they are "VERY busy on the farm."

With the exception of one room that needed iron sheeting installed, the permanent chicken coop is nearly completed.  The second group of broilers they raised has been sold and a profit was made.  Beka and Anna have decided to wait another month or so to raise more broilers because "people generally don't have money to purchase them right after Christmas."

Also, the layers they have been raising are now beginning to lay eggs which, according to Beka "is so exciting!!"  They are having a slow start because the move from Mzuzu to the farm upset the hens and it will take a few days for them to settle down.  Anna told Beka that she is currently gathering 13 eggs each day, but I am confident that it won't be long before the rest of the 50 hens begin producing and the bounty will be taken to the market or sold off the farm.

Some new occupants will also be moving onto the farm.  When Sandy and his brother, Jeremiah, build the new "houses" next month for the goats and cow, Beka and Anna will be purchasing their first dairy cow.  Beka's expression in her note to me says it all:  "We are excited!!"

The crops that have been planted are also thriving.  Maize, soy, sweet potatoes, ground nuts, beans, and cassava are "growing well," and once again, Beka and Anna "are so excited!!"  Both women are anticipating a "big harvest next year!"

See?  I told you there were "exciting" things happening on the farm!  And we share in their excitement as we watch God prove Himself with Beka and Anna time and time again.  However, I am sure that Anna would appreciate an occasional break in the rain clouds.  She told Beka that "the rains are very heavy now and...it is just mud everywhere."  If you have taken the time to Google Malawi's rainy season and look at the images, you will agree that we don't know mud like the people of Malawi know mud!

The heavens pouring out rain to water the crops unfortunately doesn't address their need for potable water at the house.  Anna has finally gotten quotes on what it will take to establish a well on the property.  Digging a "bore hole" on the farm will cost the two women $1300 and they plan on making that their next project.  In the meantime, Anna is drawing water from another location and having to pay multiple fees in order to get it.  Apparently, the owners of the property have been taking advantage of Anna and keep increasing their fee each time she needs the water.  Beka accurately describes this method of doing business as "corruption," stating, "it would be much better if we had our own well." 

I am in full agreement with her.

As is common everywhere, water tables vary during certain seasons of the year.  In order for Beka and Anna to drill a well on their property, it would have to be accomplished no later than the end of February to ensure they find the "right water table, which is 25 meters deep."  At this stage in their finances, they don't have the money but are clinging to hope.  Beka states, "We're hoping the funds come in!"

Chifuniru and Wongani are now back in school.  However, because of the distance from the city to the farm, Anna had to place them in one that is closer.  The typical rural school is very poor, and Anna has told Beka the boys aren't learning anything.

"Anna says they don't even have lessons, they just go and play and then come back home. We are hoping to find a private school nearby so that they can get a better education (or education in general)."

As was revealed in the first post on this blog, a primary education is compulsory and free in Malawi.   Although there are many private schools available, to attend one may be an expensive endeavor Beka and Anna can't afford.  Let's keep this matter lifted in prayer, asking the LORD to provide them with a solution for the boys that won't place another burden on them. 

As you can see, Beka and Anna haven't slowed down one bit.  Everything they are doing, whether it's in Malawi or here in the United States, is a step towards seeing the toddler house completed and operating.  There is no shortage of energy and drive, as is evident in their hard work.  However, what is obvious from this latest report is that there are still challenges they are facing because of the lack of funds to accomplish them.

You can help Beka and Anna meet them by doing some very simple things:

Pray.  Just look at how affective our prayers have been to date!

Spread the word among your families and friends.  Don't be afraid to ask them to give, regardless of how little or how much.  Every penny counts.

Invite others to read this blog and encourage them to also share it with others.

Come up with innovative ways to help Beka raise the funds she and Anna need for specific projects.  For example, we all see donation cans on store countertops that address certain needs.  Even a handful of change can turn into much-needed dollars.

More important is this: don't wait for Beka to come to your church and request a few minutes of your time.  Be a representative for her and talk to your church leadership about scheduling a visit to hear her presentation.

Within each of us, there is something we could be doing to help get Wongani's Hope built.  If you have the heart to help, all you have to do is dig down deep and search for it.  I recently had a conversation with another missionary friend of mine that is attempting to gather support for his devotion to the LORD.  Regardless of the responses missionaries receive as they travel from town to town and church to church, God has already established those who will give their time, talents, and money to the work He has placed upon them.  As my friend said, they are out there.  They just need to be found.

Help Beka and Anna find those that God has already positioned to assist Him.  With our help, Beka and Anna can refocus their attention where it should be - building Wongani's Hope for the children of Malawi.

Thanks for taking the time to keep up on Beka's and Anna's work.  Please keep praying that funds for specific needs will be met in a timely manner.  If you have any ideas or would like to let Beka and Anna know you are behind them, leave them a comment.  And for those of you who would like to schedule a time for Beka to visit your church or organization, you can contact her at 509-551-7204.  I know she would be grateful to hear from you.

Keep watching for updates!

Beka's, and Anna's Cheerleader,

Karen
 

 

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Standing Up and Stepping Out

When God lays upon the heart of a person to step up and answer His call to go out into the mission field, their work becomes more than just addressing the needs of the people they are sent to serve.  It would be wonderful to know that their full concentration and energy could be put to use where it matters the most.  But that is usually not the case.

Most, if not all missionaries, rely on the good will of others to provide the necessary funds that are required to fulfill their mission.   We all know and have heard of charitable organizations that are well-funded.  Some even to the point of exaggeration, where most of the money that is given goes to extravagant administration costs.  If you are like me, you avoid this type, merely for the reason that you have no idea where your money is actually going.  I prefer those that assure me 100% of what I am giving is going to the need I have designated it for and not to line someone's pocket.

Seventy percent of American missionaries must raise their own money to serve.  Needless to say, this can be a daunting task and one that many are either afraid to approach, or do not have the knowledge to even begin.  It is said that when the want-to-be missionary realizes the difficulty, they rarely even start the process because the idea of having to stand before others and ask for money scares them off.

There are many different ways to gather support.  A website I found listed a few.  One such method, the "Mueller approach,"  is to pray, and only pray, believing that God will send others to you to offer what you need.  The effectiveness of prayer should never be questioned.  It should always be to God that we first go, especially when we believe that He is the one Who is sending us to do His work.  And when we ask others to pray, the word is spread abroad and our need for support is heard.  Prayer also draws others whose hearts have been prepared by God in advance and who never question - they just do.  They become willing partners because He set them aside long before the need was realized.  However, in the meantime while we are waiting for answers to our prayers, the work God is asking us to do is stuck in idle.

When Wycliffe Bible Translators was asked how their missionaries garner support, the details had to be pulled from them.  Their work around the world has been amazing, to say the least.  The Word of God has been tirelessly translated by this worthy organization into more than 700 languages in order for the nations to know the Gospel of Jesus Christ.  But it requires that the missionary live among the people for decades in order to understand their form of communication, which often does not include a written language.  Wycliffe missionaries ask for prayer but do not share the financial need unless asked.  Rather than putting the missionaries into an uncomfortable position of  requesting a certain amount, the donor is left to determine how much his heart is willing to give.  However, most of us want to know how much is needed so that we can be sure the goal is reached.

The "D.L. Moody approach" is to "share the financial needs and appeal for action."  This is a much more direct approach, but can often be viewed as too forceful.  Of course, there is also what is called the "Campus Crusade approach:"  sit down at a business lunch, present your proposal with colorful pamphlets or booklets, and use a more direct, logical, "spell out the vision, the need and that God is calling you to be part of the answer" spiel.  Unfortunately, this may be great for a businessman or top executive, but it has the possibility of being seen as a good tax write-off, or something to ensure the board their money is protected, rather than answering God's call to help.  Also, it is probably the least favorable and desirable approach because of the appearance it gives of being a business rather than a demonstration of a heart's desire to honor God.  The world is full of businesses of this nature who showcase their charities like a badge of honor.

You are probably asking yourself where I am going with this.  Since this is Beka's and Anna's blog, and if you have been following it, the answer is obvious.  Although they are profoundly grateful for all that has been done, they have chosen to remain humble in their approach to secure funding.  They have not asked for anything, but it is clear that Beka and Anna need our continued help.

I think it would be safe to say that, so far, the two women have relied on the first approach: prayer, both from their end and from those of us who have joined them.  And the things that they have been able to accomplish through this approach have been truly amazing.  God has heard them and us and has responded by greatly blessing their endeavor, not only with a little money, but with providence and protection.  He is mighty and worthy of our praise, isn't He?

Over the last couple of days, a question/answer conversation I had with Beka has revealed a great deal.  We have all known what they were aiming for, and we have watched with joy as some of it has come to fruition.  But it is only a beginning, a scratching of the surface, so to speak.  The work that lies ahead for Beka and Anna has just started, and what they will face in the coming year will determine whether or not Wongani's Hope is built and the children they have been sent to serve come pouring in.  Therefore, I would like to share a few things with you that will give a clearer picture of what it is going to take, both emotionally and physically, to see this happen.

As you all know, in one week Beka will be back home in Benton City.  However, Wongani will not be with her.  The adoption process has proven to be a complicated and lengthy one and she was unable to get it completed in time for her departure.  He will be staying behind with Anna and Chifu on the farm until Beka is able to return to Malawi.  When I read Beka's words about having to leave him behind, my heart was overcome with sadness for them.  She has indicated that communication will be virtually cut off - no phone service, no internet, email or Skyping.  A final kiss and a long hug before she boards her plane will have to carry them through her lengthy stay back home until she can return to them and the farm.

Some of you may wonder why Beka is making this trip in the middle of so much unsettledness, and how she can leave part of herself behind.  It is true that she is homesick and misses her family and friends, but I want you to know that this will not be easy for her.  Although she appears to be putting on a good front, I read the tears between the lines in her response to my questions.  She is torn between staying behind with Wongani or coming back to the states.  As a missionary, her reasons are obvious:  the necessity to accomplish exactly what this blog post began with - fund raising.  Beka knows that she must come home and spend whatever time it takes to secure support for her mission, even if it means being away from Wongani and Anna for a long period of time.

I am going to go out on a limb and share with you in her own words how important this is to Beka.  My questions to her were about the length of time she would be gone and if she would need to work at home to earn money to return:

"To be honest, I have no idea how long I will be home this time.  It all depends on fund raising...my job is to speak with churches and people and see what doors God opens.  I could be home for as little as 4 months or it could be a year.  I hope sooner rather than later, but I'm just not sure.  Right now, I don't have any money to my name to call my own, which makes me feel uncomfortable, so I will probably work at least part time once I get home.  My job is really to focus on fund raising but I think it would be difficult not to work.  I haven't secured a job yet but I will see once I get home."

Beka also told me that she and Anna do not yet have full support from any one church.  The money they have received has come from individuals who are passing their donations through Mabton Grace Brethren, or that which is given to her sister, Mandy, who is graciously handling her meager bank account.

That about sums it up, doesn't it?  It also reveals how truly humble Beka is when it comes to asking others for help.  The problem is that Beka and Anna need to ask us for help and I think they have finally realized that.  Beka is willing to sacrifice being away from Wongani for up to a year to secure that assistance.  She is willing to employ a few of the approaches mentioned above, one being to stand before strangers and present the work God has given her and Anna to do in Malawi.  She will face rejection, apathy, or silence at times, I am sure.  But she knows the task that has been set in front of her and is willing to face it with boldness and a praying heart that others will be drawn to offer what she and Anna need to build the toddler house.

However, as my daughter-in-law, Rachel, pointed out, Beka and Anna should not have to do it on their own.  It is time to roll up our sleeves and get to work.  If you believe that God was the author of Wongani's Hope and that He wrote upon their hearts to serve Him this way, it is time for us to also step forward and assist.  The sooner we yoke ourselves with Beka and Anna and put our backs to the plow, the quicker Beka can return to Wongani and continue her work in Malawi.

I know this is a long post, but I would like to share some priorities I asked Beka and Anna to give me in order to fully understand their financial situation and their immediate needs.  Their desire is to be as openly transparent as they can possibly be so that it is understood by their donors exactly where their money will be going.  These are things that are seen as the most vital or urgent in building the toddler house and securing the farm's success, including the funds that are needed for specific projects.  As you will see, they are not limited to mere monthly support or what we may see as normal necessities to answer inconveniences.  So, I am listing them in the order of priority as Beka and Anna see it.


Current General Monthly Expenses - $700
Although this wasn't at the top of their list, I am placing it here in order for you to understand their monthly living expenses.  This includes rent, electricity, water, food, communication, soap, cleaning supplies, medical expenses, and transportation for the five people in the household (Beka, Wongani, Anna, and Anna's two sons, Chifuniro and Keith).  They have indicated that once they are living in the house at the farm, they will save approximately $200 per month because they will no longer have to pay electricity, water, or rent.  And during Beka's absence, the communication and food cost will also decrease.


Complete Land Registration Process - $400
Beka and Anna have started this process but it has had to be sidelined because they lack the fees required to complete it.  These fees need to be paid to two separate agencies: the Land Office and City office.  This is crucial.  Although they have paid for the official house plans and they are ready to record them, in order for the building of the toddler house to begin these fees must first be paid.  Beka and Anna have said this will be the first thing they do once they get the necessary funds.


Garden and Farming - $438  
Because their funds are running low and the cost of supplies continues to rise, Beka and Anna have only been able to plant a small portion of their farm ground.  A small amount of maize, beans, pumpkin, and a few vegetables are currently planted, with plans to plant soy beans, ground nuts, sweet potatoes, more beans, and cassava as soon as they have the funds to do so.  They are trying to take advantage of the rainy season and what little they do have to plant.  The following is a break down of their current farm and garden needs:


  • To clear and prepare the rest of the land - $110
  • Pest chemicals for all 3 acres and sprayer - $200
  • Funds for seeds: soy beans $18; ground nuts $25; beans $15; maize $70

Water and Power - $200-$1200
As some of you know through a recent FB message, $200 is needed for a connection fee to electricity, yet does not include wiring the house.  However, Beka and Anna have stated that there are cases of people waiting as long as three (yes, that's 3) years after paying before electricity is brought to them.  Because of this, they have also considered another option: solar power.  It is a much larger investment - $1200 for the panels, the batteries, and to wire the house - but certainly worth considering.  Over time, the savings they would realize not having to pay an electric bill would be substantial, plus they wouldn't have to worry about the continual blackouts that occur everywhere in Malawi.

Beka and Anna are in the process of learning what it will cost to dig a well on the property and have promised to get me the information as soon as they know it.

The house and almost-completed chicken coop.  Look at the view God has given them!
Livestock - $515
Funds have been designated to purchase certain animals, but money to build pens and barns is still needed:

  • The chicken house is completed, but an additional 20 sheets of tin is needed for the pig, cow, and goat "houses." - $400
  • Wood planks have been secured, but they are needing 15 kgs of nails to build the animal "houses." - $75
  • 10 meters of mesh wire to cover the windows - $40

Anna and Keith
Finish House Surface Plaster - $160
Although the house appears to be finished and liveable (other than plumbing and power), it is common practice in Malawi to plaster over the brick.  Beka and Anna have placed this on the lowest priority, but it would be a blessing to have it completed.

A 3-Ton Truck - $13,000
I have placed this down at the bottom of the list, but only because I was uncertain where it should go in relation to the importance of other things, and because it may appear to many as a startling amount of money.  Beka and Anna learned that to have all their supplies and building materials delivered to their property was not cheap.  In fact, they told me that "thousands of dollars" went towards transportation costs that could have gone to other needs.  They have expressed dismay that the building of the toddler house, which will be a much bigger building, may have to be put on hold until they can come up with a better solution to alleviate this problem.

However, Beka and Anna see this problem as of great importance and have researched the price of a 3-ton truck.  The cost to them would be tremendous, but I can see it benefiting them in the long run.  Not only would they be able to use it to bring building materials and supplies onto the property, but eventually they would also employ it to deliver animals and produce to local markets, including providing them with vital transportation, if needed.  The thought of starting a small transportation business has also been on their minds, which would supplement their income and ease their reliance on donations.

Beka's Round-Trip Plane Fare  - $2200 
I wasn't surprised at the amount Beka gave me.  What's troubling, though, is that the same amount will be needed for Wongani's ticket when he is finally able to travel with her.  This is a huge expense for her and dramatically cuts into her finances that could be used for other things.

Non-Governmental Organization Status (NGO) - Cost Unknown
Wikipedia defines a NGO as "a legally constituted organization created by natural or legal persons that operates independently from any government."  They are generally non-profit organizations with no political affiliation that aim to address social conditions.  Although they will definitely be working on it and know they will need to eventually establish status as a NGO, at this time they see it as just another fee they can't afford.  Because the project is "underground" at the moment, it would also mean that the process would complicate what they are currently doing.  The requirement is one that they will address after Beka returns, but only if she is able to secure more support while she is in the U.S and only until everything they are trying to do is in place.

Once they are able to secure their NGO, the time and energy it takes to keep Beka's visa in good standing will lessen.  At present, Beka is able to apply for a 9-month stay.  But when the NGO status is established, she will be able to apply for what is called a "Temporary Employment Permit" (TEP) that will allow her to remain in the country for two years at a time.  Beka has also stated that there is no requirement regarding the amount of time she must stay out of the country before she can reenter.  With the ability to extend her stay that long, the pressure Beka feels over all that needs to be accomplished before she leaves each time will be eased.


I am sure that the information you have just read appears overwhelming.  There may even be some of you who feel that the challenge is just too great and the result impossible to achieve for two women seemingly on their own.  However, when I consider the great things that God has been able to see His servants accomplish, why should these daunting numbers cause us to doubt that He will complete what He has begun in Malawi?

Beka and Anna have the necessary faith and trust to keep on tirelessly working to see Wongani's Hope built.  And they will do it with or without our help by relying on what little they are receiving.  Up to this point, they haven't asked for much, and what they have received has been used to glorify the LORD through their faithful service to Him.  They will continue to build using one brick, one plank, one nail, and one seed at a time until what they have committed themselves to doing is accomplished.

Trusting them to continue to do so by using our donations wisely is something each of us will have to individually consider.  Personally, it only took a brief presentation back in May for my husband, Steve, and myself to give our hearts, our trust, and our time and money to this project.  We didn't know Beka Feth, but we recognized her heart.  And that was enough for us.

Please consider the needs Beka and Anna have.  When Beka returns home, she has a huge task ahead of her, one that I'm sure is causing her anxiety.  I know I would be dreading it.  But Beka is determined and if there is anything we have learned from her it is that she doesn't give up.  She may even show up at your church and tell you about all the wonderful things God has done through her and Anna to bring about hope for Malawi's children.  If she does, I am praying that there will be others who will stand up and step out in service to assist them, as so many have already done. 

I love writing these blog posts.  As I add the pictures to the words, they bring greater meaning to the project.  The  small reward of just seeing the progress they have made here on the blog fills my heart with joy.  It's not my intent to bully or pressure anyone into making donations.  I only want to share the thrill and excitement I feel each time I see how my gifts are being used to bring Christ honor and glory.  If you decide that you would like to help, as you watch your donations bring God's work to its conclusion, I know that your heart will also respond with joy, filling you with gratitude to the LORD for also allowing you the privilege of having a part in it.

The more work we do for Beka and Anna here, the less the burden is that they will have to carry.  Lets all start brainstorming about ways to help secure these funds.  Sharing this blog  and the work they are doing with our church and community is a first step in letting others know that there is a very worthy project waiting to be recognized.  Foremost in my mind, however, is a little boy who will be waiting anxiously for her in Malawi and depending on us to make sure she gets back there soon. 

Thank you, everyone, for your generous contributions and for the love you have demonstrated to Beka and Anna.  Continue to employ the first and best approach - prayer - not only for them, but also for our success in garnering ideas and support, and for those the LORD will send to join us as we work together to build Wongani's Hope.

In Christ's, Beka's, and Anna's service,

Karen